[in Your State]

Domestic violence

Last post 01-31-2008, 11:10 AM by hr410. 10 replies.
Sort Posts:
  •  11-30-2007, 9:47 AM 3095

    Mikey1 is not online. Last active: 05-30-2008, 7:32 AM Mikey1



    Top 50 Contributor



    Joined on 04-13-2007



    Posts 28



  • Domestic violence

    What's the best way to deal with a victim of domestic violence whe she is one of your employees?
  •  11-30-2007, 9:51 AM 3096 in reply to 3095

    Richard3 is not online. Last active: 03-06-2008, 6:56 PM Richard3



    Top 50 Contributor



    Joined on 04-20-2007



    Posts 25



  • Re: Domestic violence

    Refer the employee to your EAP; if you don't have one provide them with a list of community resources. Consider getting a restraining order if the violent party may show up at the workplace. Hire more security. Offer the victim a flexible work schedule or leave of absence if that will help.
  •  11-30-2007, 11:13 AM 3098 in reply to 3096

    TXHRGuy is not online. Last active: 10-09-2008, 12:08 AM TXHRGuy



    Top 10 Contributor



    Joined on 11-20-2007



    Posts 734



  • Re: Domestic violence

    I like to get a picture of the offending individual for people who walk the grounds or monitor doors.
  •  12-03-2007, 12:20 PM 3116 in reply to 3098

    GoPatsNH is not online. Last active: 01-04-2008, 3:57 PM GoPatsNH



    Top 25 Contributor



    Joined on 01-05-2007



    Posts 81



  • Re: Domestic violence

    You'll also want to see if your state has any law requiring you to provide leave to crime victims or victims of domestic violence for certain reasons, for isntance, to go to court or seek help.
  •  12-03-2007, 3:24 PM 3120 in reply to 3116

    kockler is not online. Last active: 08-19-2008, 1:27 PM kockler



    Top 50 Contributor



    Joined on 09-26-2007


    Iowa


    Posts 31



  • Re: Domestic violence

    I had an employee a few years back that was in this situation with her significant other - here's what we did:

    • Allowed her to work a flexible schedule in order to go to court; also when she went to the doctor and got an RO.
    • Gave her EAP information so she could seek counseling, also using a flex schedule for such
    • Since we were in a secured building which required access badges, we notified the security guards, with his picture, so he didn't gain access to the building
    • offered to have the guards walk her to her car on any occasion she wanted it.

     

  •  12-04-2007, 2:39 PM 3154 in reply to 3120

    Tree is not online. Last active: 12-05-2007, 12:53 PM Tree



    Top 200 Contributor



    Joined on 12-05-2007



    Posts 4



  • Re: Domestic violence

    Good info above.  Illinois has VESSA - which is specifically targeted to assist victims of domestic violence.  Also...give the person

     

    1-800-799-SAFE, it is the national domestic abuse hotline.  

    website www.hdvh.org

     

    There's good info there for HR professionals as well. 


    ~ Tree

    To live only for some future goal is shallow. Its the sides of the mountain that sustain life, not the top. (Robert M. Pirsig)
  •  12-10-2007, 2:50 PM 3232 in reply to 3154

    bevhunt is not online. Last active: 08-28-2008, 9:20 AM bevhunt



    Top 10 Contributor



    Joined on 01-05-2007



    Posts 98



  • Re: Domestic violence

    Great suggestions.  We also had a similar problem.  I know it's an inconvenience, but we also changed the employee's extension number because her ex was calling her dozens of times a day.  Only people who had to contact her were made aware of her new extension. We also took her off the automatic forward (first 3 letters of last name) on the phone system.
  •  12-12-2007, 4:02 PM 3300 in reply to 3095

    IT HR is not online. Last active: Fri, Oct 10 2008, 10:57 AM IT HR



    Top 10 Contributor



    Joined on 07-25-2007



    Posts 383



  • Re: Domestic violence

    We had a situation at our company as well.  We locked our doors and gave all of our employees keycards to get into the office.  We told all of our employees it was for their protection since we are in an office building with other companies and anyone could try come into our office during business hours. They were all happy about this.  Also the employee gave me permission to give the phone number to our receptionist so that she would not transfer any calls from the person (we have caller id on our phone system).
  •  12-27-2007, 4:27 PM 3437 in reply to 3095

    meyerk02 is not online. Last active: 01-28-2008, 3:55 PM meyerk02



    Top 100 Contributor



    Joined on 12-21-2007



    Posts 10



  • Re: Domestic violence

    All of the above are good suggestions.  We had a situation like this at work and I actually would walk the employee to the Subway each day after work until she felt comfortable.

     

    Ken

  •  01-10-2008, 2:48 PM 3571 in reply to 3095

    dhall111 is not online. Last active: 06-27-2008, 11:38 AM dhall111



    Top 10 Contributor



    Joined on 02-26-2007



    Posts 105



  • Re: Domestic violence

    I agree with a lot of the other posters here. 

     Also check your state regs, they may have laws on the books that require time off.  FL just implemented a law to that effect.

  •  01-31-2008, 11:10 AM 3855 in reply to 3095

    hr410 is not online. Last active: 10-03-2008, 9:16 PM hr410



    Top 25 Contributor



    Joined on 01-09-2007



    Posts 57



  • Re: Domestic violence

    Some states also allow leave for victims of domestic violence, to get court orders of protection, to go to court for related reasons, or to seek counseling or medical care. Check with your state law to see if you are required to give leave for any of those purposes.

View as RSS news feed in XML
Use of this site constitutes your agreement to the terms and condition specified in the HR.BLR.com Forum Agreement