The different EIN shouldn't matter as they are owned by the same entity, meaning there is a central body that has access to all the info anyway.
Strip away the corporation and imagine that Bob owns a hardware store and a lawn care business. Frank, who works for Bob in the store, quits his store job on good terms and takes a job with the lawn care business. Since Bob owns both entities, Bob has access to both pieces of information. This doesn't translate into much more than an inter departmental transfer. Can you sue Bob for Bob using Bob's own information to make a decision in Bob's own business?
Because the structure you are in sounds a little larger and more complex than the operation I've described, I'd find the Bob in your situation and ask him personally if he cares. I don't think he should mind at all, particularly because it helps his business.