Here are a couple ideas...
You can have a bona fide cafeteria plan that has only one option. That would solve most of the problem. Still, we do that and we pay on a percentage basis although the percentage differs depending on whether the component of the premium is for the employee, the spouse, or their child(ren).
There is, actually, a way to do pretty much exactly what you want, now that I think about it. Instead of having an employer match, you can have a plan that says the Company will pay X amount for benefits but you have to take the Company's medical insurance or demonstrate that you have equal or better coverage, in which case you can have the X as part of your pay check, instead. That is something I know is done. The only thing I"m not sure about is whether you can do this and have the amoutn awarded, the X, be less than the cost of the medical insurance on an employee-only basis. You'll need to hear from a better benefits person than me or talk to a lawyer for that one.