The following scenario and advice was offered by Betsy Larsen, who is interested in what her HR colleagues think about this:
You had a good idea, so
you offered it to your boss. It was either scoffed at or ignored or simply not
implemented. Weeks or months later it is clear that your idea
has miraculously surfaced as your boss's idea.
What to do? Is it best
to take the high road and let the boss take the credit, knowing your good idea
is being implemented regardless of who gets credit for it? Or do you take your
boss aside, and mention that the idea he just threw out there was really your
idea that you mentioned to him previously?
If he truly doesn't
remember that it was your idea, he'll be angry and think that you're trying
to take credit for his idea! If he does remember, he'll be angry that
you embarrassed him by pointing out his gaffe. Plus, it's likely that he will
lose interest in the idea that is no longer his, and it will never be
implemented. Best course of action is to accept the fact that your idea really
WAS listenend to and implemented, and leave it at that. Sometimes an idea just
has to be chewed on for awhile before it is ready for prime time. During that
process, its origins were forgotten.
Betsy is curious to hear other's thoughts and experiences with this issue.